What’s a secret skill or ability you have or wish you had?
A secret skill or ability I have or wish to have…🤔
Well, if I were to tell you my secret skill or ability it wouldn’t be a secret anymore – now would it 🤷♀️
I would love the ability to call out a liar. I’m too trusting (even though I’ve spent a lifetime surrounded by liars) and give the benefit of doubt too readily.

©Photograph by Sara Allwright/All rights reserved.
Thus, I would love to walk away from lies before they even finish the first sentence.
Happy Monday! ❤️
Great post, and I, too, shut down a lying conversation from the first alarm goes off I the end of the conversation. This post is relatable to my method of dealing with untruths. 👌
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Thank you! Sometimes you’ve got to go with your gut instincts and walk away before they drag you in.
Have a fab day – without the liars. 😁
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Thank you and likewise yourself…haha
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😁😁
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Good luck my dear Sara🙌💕
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Have a beautiful day Noga. 🌸💕
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Pretty good
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Hey Sara! ❤️ I hope you’re having a great weekend! 😊 I just wanted to let you know I nominated you for the Sunshine Blogger Award! No obligation to participate, but if you decide to, I’d love to see your answers! 😀
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Hi Laura, thank you for the nomination – I appreciate it! ❤️
Been off the radar for a bit, needed a little time out. I hope you are well and looking after yourself! 😁
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No worries at all ❤️ I hope you are doing well 🙏 2 more nights of work for me! 😆
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Aww… I hope your work nights go quickly, and you have some shenanigans planned! 😉❤️
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Soon enough soon enough, in about another month some shenanigans will take place! 🤣 ❤️ thank you, Sara – I hope the same for you! 💕 🤗
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Roll on a months time 🤪 Laura ❤️
Happy Taco Tuesday 🌮🌮 💕😁
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This is such a great post! When I want to know if someone is lying, I look for inconsistencies in what they are saying or pay attention to gut reactions. Thanks for sharing, and have a good day 🙂 Aiva xx
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Thank you so much! 😊
Yes, I think trusting your gut and instincts is important. Thank you, and you’re very welcome Aiva xx🌻
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🥰🥰🥰
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😊🥰🥰
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This is relatable. As a terrible liar, I always wonder how people do it seamlessly without my noticing. 😅
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I know, I’m the same 🤷♀️😂
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Your introspective take on the desire to detect deception resonates deeply. The
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Thank you! 😊
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I wish everyone could be trustworthy, it would make things a lot better
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It certainly would Rojie!
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Great Post ❤️❤️
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Thank you Barry! 😊❤️
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I strongly believe that giving multiple chances to liars ina hope that they would improve is an absolute waste of time….it’s always better to move on from such a waste
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Yes, I have to agree with you…I learnt the hard way! 🙂
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What a great photo – very trippy!!
And yes – it would be good to be able to cut through all the fakeness and know the purity of someone’s heart! Linda xx
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Thanks Linda 🤗
Wouldn’t it just, it would save so much heartache!
I hope you are well, have a lovely day, Linda 😁🌻❤️
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❣️always a pleasure to be here! xx
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Always a pleasure to have you here, Linda ❣️😊xx
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Hi Sara hv been loving ur pg so much recently…..I request u to go through my pg as well and make sure to subscribe
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This is a very cool ability. You could also fish out the real and fake friends.
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That would be great, wouldn’t it? 😊
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OMG!! Have you watched the streaming show Poker Face”??
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No I haven’t, but I’ve heard about it (recently). I believe, I can now watch it on Prime video. 😊
Thank you, Tina!
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How did you take that photo?
Please tell me your secret skill, I want to know 🤣
Sometimes lies are to protect or for the greater good. The motive or intention is what we need to understand… it is subjective.
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My photographic skills is a secret! 🤣
My secret skill is a secret! 😂
And yes, the motive or intention of a lie is what is important.
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Are you lying about the secret 🤣😋
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Hehe…now that would be telling!!! And I don’t want to lie…😂🤣
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Well that is a conundrum 🤣
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Hehe…I’ve confused myself now! 🤣😂
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Did the wine inspire you? 🤣
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It always helps Iba. 🍷🤪😂
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I wonder if I should get some. But I need something stronger for this cold, whiskey? 🤣
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Port and Brandy! That helps…. 🥃🥃🤗
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You are giving me plenty of ideas, thankyou 🤣
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Always worth trying new medicines! 🥃🤔🤪🤣😂
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They work better than the real ones 🤣😂
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They certainly do 🤣😂
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Sara, great post! There are some really fascinating YTs about the myriad “tells” people do when they’re lying… looking away, touching their ear lobe, rubbing their nose… etc. I did a quick search and found one that seemed to cover the basics. Next best thing until Q comes with something for 007 😉
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Hey, thank you so much for the video Darryl! Some interesting ‘tells’ – I’ll be on super alert looking for all these signs. I’m sure Q will come up with an instant eye that detects a lie within seconds for the next 007 (me). 😉
I watched a true crime documentary a few days ago, a psychologist was outlining a liars body language – it was fascinating. 😎
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I agree Sara.. but why when I saw that picture I suddenly got a little dizzy? 😂😂😂
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Hehe… I know, that photo certainly knocks you sideways doesn’t it? 🤪😂
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You’re right, I’ll definitely steal that photo someday😂😂
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😂🤣😅
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I agree with you, little Sara !
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Thank you, Tony !
☺️❤️
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Hi Sara
We want to be able to lie more charmingly and entertainingly.
What’s judged as a lie is often either moralistic or highly subjective.
All the best
The Fab Four of Cley
🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂
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Hi The Fab Four of Cley
I suppose it depends on a persons intention.
Thank you for your comment, it made me think…
Sara 😁
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… that was meant to be.
Klausbernd 🙂
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Good thoughts Sara. There are many ways to know when someone is lying. The body doesn’t lie, but you have to look to the feet to see what is really going on g on, not really the eyes…
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Oooh…thank you for that info, Francisco. I will certainly be looking at what’s going on with the feet!
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The feet, and how people move them can tell you much!
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Thank you Francisco! 😁
I am intrigued, I will observe 👁️.
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Pleasure Sara. Have a lovely evening 🍷🌻🍷
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Good morning, Francisco ☕️ Have a wonderful Tuesday! 😊🌞🌻
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Good morning Sara! Yes, it is quite a lovely day indeed! Hope you too enjoy your day! Thank you! 🌻🌹🌻
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Sara lying is one of my pet peeves😡
The thing is , you need a good memory to lie or you will trip yourself up.
Seems we both attract them my friend.🙄
Have a lovely day xoxo
😘❤️🤗
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It’s certainly the worst peeve for me 🤬
I wouldn’t be any good, my memory is shot! 😅
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I have a memory like an elephant, but my face would give me away 🙄
Hugs Sara 😘❤️🤗
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Hehe…😂
Happy Tuesday, Maggie.🤗 have a great day my friend ❤️😘
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Happy Tuesday to you Sara 🤗❤️😘
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😊😘❤️
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A good lier needs to be a good story teller. I wonder if that’s why we gravitate to them!
Could we invent a portable lie detector?
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A portable and instant lie detector would be very useful…let me know if you find one please! 😁
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Make sure toread it
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Great Article ❤️❤️❤️
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Thank you 😊❤️🌻
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Agree with you! 👍
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Thanks Ashley…it would make life a lot easier wouldn’t it!!!! 👍
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Wonderful⭐
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Thank you 😊 🌟
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Happy Monday, Sara!♥️
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Happy Monday, Daisy. Have a lovely day! ❤️
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If someone is lying to you and you don’t detect that, you just need to follow that person’s life because sooner or later the liar steps in the mouse trap and that’s it the liar has no place to go after that 😊 Happy New week to you 🌺
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Very true Jean…thank you! 😊. Have a fab week being creative 🎶🎵🌻
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This photo is awesome, Sara! 😊 I hope you’re doing well. Have a great start to your week! ❤️ 🤗
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Thank you Laura ❤️. I took this photo when I was in Lisbon. I didn’t know I had it until I went through my pics. Have a wonderful day Laura, I hope you are well and not working too many night shifts! 😊❤️
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Just getting off actually 🤪 still on the search for that day job! And thank you ❤️ and it’s a really cool photo!
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I hope you find it, night shifts always catch up with you 😱. Thank you Laura ❤️. Have a fab day, after a good kip! 😁
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It sounds to me like you more wish to be able to detect lies than call them out. I’m not very good at it either, but over time I’ve simply tuned out what people say when they are most likely to be lying to me.
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Yes, a lie detector! It would eliminate so much angst! Thank you for your comment Paul, I need to practice. 😊
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The photo looks creepy, Sara. It’s good to detect liar, indeed.
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It is a little creepy isn’t it. I didn’t know I’d taken it until I looked back through the shots. Thank you Hazel! 😃
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Oh, it sends shivers, Sara.
And you’re always welcome
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