‘Trust’

Share a lesson you wish you had learned earlier in life.

Not to trust so readily. As a child I trusted my family, more specifically, my parents.

However, they were the least trustworthy people in my life. I looked up to them for guidance, love, encouragement, emotional growth.

My parents didn’t give me any of these things.

But, as a child I did trust my parents. So, the lesson for me is 🤔…

Favourite Foods

What are your favorite types of foods?

Oh gosh!!!

I love just about all foods 😋

I enjoy tasting all the different flavours, traditions, and the local ingredients from all the countries I visit.

So, really, I love all foods.

Yum…now I’m hungry 🤔😁😂

‘Walk and Run’

How often do you walk or run?

I can’t run, but I can walk

I can’t stand, but I can dance

Due to spinal complications which required major surgery;

Thoracic spinal fracture

Lumbar disc protrusions

Double cervical discectomy and fusion

Cervical spinal osteophytes removal

I couldn’t run away, but I walked away, and now I’m dancing.

Keep smiling 😁, keep dancing 💃, keep safe.

Leader 🤔

Do you see yourself as a leader?

Do I see myself as a leader 🤔…no, not really.

I was a college lecturer for twenty years, so if that makes me a leader then maybe so.

Favourite Word

What’s your favorite word?

Hmmmm…. My favourite word has to be ‘discombobulated’

It is a word that represents me to a tee, well, it did!

I often felt in a state of confusion, disorientation, anxiety, about something, but never really knowing of what.

I love the sound of the word; discombobulated! It rolls off the tongue wonderfully. It has a certain sense of humour about it.

Hopefully, my new favourite word will become; ‘recombobulated’ 🤞🤗😂

This Evening

What are you doing this evening?

Chilling on the sofa. Went to Chepstow Race course on Sunday for a music festival, and I’m still exhausted 🤣. Too much rum and dancing!

Athlete

Name the professional athletes you respect the most and why.

The professional athlete I respect the most has to be Sir Mo Farah.

One of Britains most celebrated track athletes. I respect him, not only for his athletic achievements, but also for his strength, resilience, and spirit with reference to his childhood traumas.

A truly remarkable man.

Relax

How do you relax?

How do I relax?

Potter in my garden: weather dependant…always raining in Wales!

Reading: migraine dependant.

Make Love: hormone dependant.

Spend time with family: I don’t have any.

Chill out with friends: they are all bloody married and busy with hubby.

Go on holiday: no one to go with.

Cooking: would love to cook for others, not just for myself.

Painting: keeps me from my bed for days.

Writing my memoir: emotionally draining.

So, what do I do to relax? Jump in the hot tub with a glass of wine 🫧🫧🍷😍

Five up a word

If you had to give up one word that you use regularly, what would it be?

I cannot answer this question 🤔.

There are many words that I use regularly that I would rather not use, but I don’t think I can give up any of them at the moment. They are relevant. So I won’t bore you with my endless list.

So, it’s not a matter of giving up one word, it’s more about not having the need to use a specific ‘word‘.

If that makes any sense? 🤔🤪

Grudge

Are you holding a grudge? About?

Am I holding a grudge? No

I have experienced some awful traumas in my life.

But do I hold a grudge? No

I was the victim, they were the perpetrators.

Do I hold a grudge? No

You cannot heal if you hold a grudge.

So, No, I do not hold a grudge.

I am a survivor, I am healing.

That’s because I don’t hold a grudge.

Well, that’s my thoughts 🤔